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Monday, 14 December 2009

The girl that I hate

In school, I have many friends. But do you know that actually I have an enemy too? Yes, I have. I am not going to mention her name, but just to let you know the reason I hate her.

I hated her since I was in primary school in standard two. At that time, there are 49 students in my class. However the seats in my class have 8 columns and 6 rows which in enough for 48 students only. Therefore there is an extra table behind the class. She sat in that table. Then at May, someone transfered to another school. The teacher rearranged the tables in the classroom. She sat beside me. I started to know her at that time.

At first, I am willing to be friend with her. Instead, she always disturb me but she often tell the teachers that I disturb her. The teachers were very unfair. I was always wrong when she made any report about me. But when I make a report about her, she is not wrong. The Chinese teacher punish me without allowing me to explain. The Malay teacher force me to admit by saying she won't tell the principal. While the English teacher says that no one will make a report if I didn't do something.

At standard three, a teacher came to our school to teach us Chinese for three months. During that period, the teacher carried out group activities. I am in the same group with her. She was a bad group member. She wasn't the leader but she always make all decisions for our group. She often thinks I am incooperative and often reports to the teacher. The teacher was also unfair. The teacher don't allow me to make small reports but she can. At last our group got the second last.

However, at standard four and five, we became good friends. This is because we have common friends. She stopped disturbing me and make reports to the teacher. Our houses are also quite close to each other.

At standard six, her mother asked my grandmother to take her home everyday because we were friends and our houses are close. At first I agreed with that and hope our friendship can become better. However, she became a "blackmailer" . She is in the same class as me so she knew exactly what I did in class. She often threaten to report my wrongdoings to my grandparents if I don't follow her instructions. For a few times I was scolded by my grandparents because of her reports. My grandparents believe her very much. Because of that, I began to hate her again.

At form one, she came to the same school as me. I immediately rejected her mother's request to let my grandparents take her home again. In school, a few Chinese students liked to disturb me for no reason. I was often bullied then at last I took revenge by destroying someone's bottle. They were her friends so she reported that to my grandfather. My grandparents did not believe my explaination and scolded me badly.

Since then, she became my enemy until now. I would never friend her again and cannot forgive her. Besides me, many people also hated her because of her attitude.

1 comment:

  1. Judging from your stories, I really can understand your hatred toward her. C'mon, her acts are way too childish and you ended up getting scolded by your teacher and your grandparents. I totally felt upset on her acts. By your opinion, would she ever felt regret for the things that she done? I know it might be a weird question, but I just want to ask for the sake of curiosity.